In His Own Words
About him
There has to be the physical attraction to want to make that connection. I am younger than my age portrays both mentally and physically and could have lied but then what’s the point in that.
I climb, hike, walk, mountain bike, I ride a big Triumph cruiser, do something called D&D and LARP (You will probably google this), like gardening and keep marine fish. However, of an evening I do like to chill and miss that likeminded person to chew the fat, have easy perhaps Intellectual and fun conversation with, maybe watch a decent film or box set (NO Reality TV or soaps!), or go out for a meal, or go away for a break.
An animal and nature lover is a must, pets have to come first.
Having your own interests is important too, as it adds to the stimulation for conversation
I have NO interest in football, watching sport or just lying on a beach, I prefer to do not sit.
Always feel more comfortable in the outdoors especially if hills and mountains are involved, Cities and big towns, crowded places don’t do it for me, but love castles and historical buildings.
I believe there are no fixed roles in a relationship, if your matched what you do just comes naturally.
A real person is the key, what you see is what you get, image conscious people are not for me.
A time-distance relationship possibly will not work for me, about an 1Hr travelling is the max realistically, unless you have an option I’ve not thought about?
Its important that both parties can say what is on their mind without recrimination or judgment, where it just become natural.
Looking for that Spark/chemistry, again, are you out there? We are so much more than these few wordsI
My friends would say I;
Always Finish what I start
Focused
Vivid Imagination
Loyal
An excellent listener
"He has a tool for that"
Shows no fear
Fun to be with
I dont like Ping Pong messaging either, you never will know anyone with messaging, ideal video call to start then a meet up if that works
About his ideal match
I’m not looking for a like for like replacement for previous partners either, this is totally new, but you must like the outdoors and ideally have a wicked sense of humour, either sarcastic or just make me smile. It’s a wavelength thing, we would need to be on the same page. You must have a positive outlook too, and love all animals I have a very big cat and my departed partners retired horse.
A relationship is a shared thing, each bring to the table their strengths and that is not Gender specific.
Walking would be a start for a similar activity, so much to see and experience.
I'm afraid Smoking or heavy drinking is a deal breaker.
There has to be that initial physical attraction, this perception is different for each person, we all see people differently as I'm sure you will (This is not shallow but has to be there for me, as a relationship develops the personality enhances that initial attraction). Practical and not afraid to get their hands dirty, this is what I find attractive, more at home in walking boots/ outdoor trainers than designer footwear. This does not mean you can’t be feminine
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Ripley (Belper), Derbyshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district DE56 (Belper) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
41 - 62 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Heavy Metal; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Fantasy; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Motoring; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Internet |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cycling; Extreme sports; Hiking; Mountain biking; Rock climbing; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Power |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using Country Loves: |
Nervous; Curious; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |